Comfort Those That Mourn
This is never easy. My middle son, who is 25, is going to a viewing of a friend who was hit by a drunk
driver. This is the second time in his life where he has lost a friend. And like me, words do not come
easy to this son.
I began to think, have I prepared my sons to deal with family members who have lost loved ones? No, I haven't. So I type out some words on paper that he might use when he faces his friend's mother and father, knowing full that there is no greater sorrow than a mother's pain.
I went to my son. I ask, "Are you going to the funeral home tonight?" He replied with swollen eyes, only a head shake, yes. "You know the right words do not come easy for me at times like this. I always prepare some words to say to the family. I prepared some for you when you talk to Jason's mom. Would you like to have them?" His choked reply was "Yes."
I handed him the paper which read:
I'm so sad to hear of the loss of your son Jason. I hope it will be of some comfort to know that I share your sorrow. I wish I could do something to ease your grief. You and your family are in my prayers.